Finding Balance...

Bold accessories make an old tee new.

Finding balance, not only in fashion but in life in general, can be as elusive as a Birkin.  We are so bombarded with beautiful images, the latest greatest finds, and what we should have and should want, that it becomes difficult to  decipher what is really important.  Literally, figuratively, and superficially.  So, relating only to fashion, how do we find the balance between, living and being true to our creative expression, wanting to have amazing things and feel amazing in them, but not loose sight of the fact that in this economy unlimited funds is hard to come by.

As fall is approaching we've started receiving our "phone books" (September issues).  I honestly feel bad for my mail man lugging magazines that are 758 pages thick (Vogue).  In a perfect world, I would order one of everything from Stella, Isabel, Burberry and a slew of other amazing designers that make anyone look like they belong in these magazines.  But unfortunately not many of us live in that fantasy world.  Thumbing through the "bibles" can be daunting and intimidating, but also exciting for the change of season that's ahead, and the welcome challenge to re-invent ourselves once again.

So how do we find balance?  How can we shop smart, not only for fun, trendy pieces, but also for items that we'll have for a decade strong.  Honestly, it takes will power, a bit of savviness and not falling victim to fashion advice from every "expert" consultant.  It's hard!.  When you start taking inventory, look for holes.  Are you someone that buys 500 pairs of jeans and t-shirts?  Are you an accessories hoarder (jewelry, shoes and handbags) or are you totally lost on where to start and end up buying something that's trendy for the moment, but a disaster the next?

Look at your lifestyle.  Mom's will have a completely different wardrobe than someone working corporate.  But great style doesn't have to be limited to what your wallet or everyday tasks hold.  A few pieces interchanged with each other will go a long way.  A great jacket or coat can conceal any ratty pair of jeans, and a classic pump can be worn with a skirt, some skinny's or even a pair of shorts.  Evaluate where you are in life, you'll probably be some place different next year, but in making sound choices you can still be wearing some amazing pieces.  xoxo

Little black dress with a pop of color...always beautiful

Love the shorter jacket with tee peeking out

Can't go wrong with skinny's, a blouse and great pumps

Again, great accessories liven everything

Shorts with a heel is an instant makeover

Birkin For a Cause

SJP

Louise Redknapp

The actress/model Jane Birkin has decided to auction off one of her namesake bags on ebay for charity.  All the proceeds will benefit the Japan relief fund.  The Birkin bag is so incredibly coveted, extremely expensive and sometimes elusive.  But if anything is a classic it's a Birkin.  The bags are all hand crafted and come in a variety of leathers.  Anything from a "basic" leather, all the way up to the rarest of skins.  Posh Spice has been rumored to have spent upwards of $100,000 on just one, she has a closet full.  If you're lucky enough to come across one hold on to it, your sure to pass it on for generations.  xoxo

Julia Roberts

Eva Longoria

Olivia Palermo

Rachel Zoe

 

House of HERMES!

What can I say, or do I have to say that we don't already know about HERMES?  This house is synonymous with sophistication, timelessness and all around a true classic.  In the present day of this horrible recession, it's the only design house that has shown more than a 26% growth rate just in the first 6 months of 2010.  Along with other luxury brands, HERMES continues it's strength.

Ok, that's enough of the stats, lets face it...HERMES is just cool.  What I love most, is how something so incredibly conservative, that hasn't changed it's esthetic since it's inception, can look so "now" and just plain amazing.  Yes, I know, HERMES isn't the cheapest house in the world, but one things for sure, anything that you're lucky to acquire now...will be passed down and worn by your daughter later.  xoxo

Favorite Things...

In the midst of so many amazing designers, fashions and accessories it's easy to get lost and confused on what's a forever piece and what's a "right now" trend.  In trying to find your personal style, your bound to make mistakes and have some regrets.  But always remember to be true to who you are not only as a person but also in what your day to day activities are.  Fashion and style aren't about being a slave to the trends, but about having fun and dressing for self expression.  Once you do and own your look, it doesn't matter what the pages of Vogue say.  Trust me, yes I love Vogue, but it's about guidance and luxe rather than desperate page turning trying to find the next trend to waste your money on.  With all this said, I'd like to share with you what my favorite things are.  No matter what the trends show, I always go back to these pieces.  Hope you like...xoxo